My husband has cheated on me and now wants me to take him back. And the worst part is, he cheated with another man.

It all started a few years back when my husband first became acquainted with the other man (a.k.a. TOM). TOM is a beautiful man, beautifully built, dark chocolate and talented. There was a time when TOM was the envy of every man. He had it all.

But a few years after my husband met him, TOM went to prison. My husband waited eagerly for his release. He talked about TOM all the time. To me. To our friends.

Maybe I should have seen what was coming, but I was blind. When TOM was released, my husband became more blatant in talking about him. TOM could do no wrong. TOM was everything. My husband admitted to me that he longed to see TOM once again become the player he used to be.

You may think I am a fool but I agreed that it was ok for my husband to invite TOM into our home, so long as he promised to see him only in his man-room. Not in our family room, and certainly not in our bedroom.

Well, after a while I began to notice that my husband no longer wanted to be with me on Sunday evenings. He would holed up in his man-room alone with TOM. Through the closed door I could hear moans and the screams. I heard them talking about fumbling, holding, receiving and positions. Many nights I heard my husband screaming "Touch down!" and "Turn over!"

I love my husband and I desperately wanted him back. I tried wearing sexy clothes. He still left me. I tried cooking his favorite foods. No good. Sometimes he would even take the food I had cooked for us and eat it alone with TOM.

I can’t tell you how many times I went to bed alone while the two of them played their games. I can’t tell you how it felt to have him stagger to our bed late at night, sweaty and still excited over some new move TOM had made.

I know I might sound crazy, but I am willing to do whatever it takes to be with my husband. I am thinking about learning all I can about Tom. Maybe I'll ask my husband to teach me about the games they play. I am not above asking him if I can join them in the room. Then maybe go on Jerry Springer.

Well, it all ended suddenly last Sunday. Tom left my husband, and it seems he won’t be around for a while. Now my husband wants me back. He wants to share our family space again.

I really don't know what I will do. I love him, but I just don't trust him. I still see a glint in his eye every time TOM’s name is mentioned. And he says he can’t promise me that he won’t leave me again if TOM comes back.

And even if he doesn't go back with TOM, how do I know he won’t leave me for some other jock? Just today I caught him smiling as a man ran by in mesh shorts and Nikes and dribbling his ball.

And how do I stop feeling Michael Vick-TOMized?

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